Hello all, I hope itās ok to keep posting updates and asking for advice!
Been a stressful time at home in general and I just get so anxious now when I hear his calling. When I wake up I am anxious waiting for him to kick off (although I hope I havenāt jinxed it again, that has gone MUCH better now that we are being more strict with daylight hours and being covered fully, he doesnāt actually do it any more).
My partner says I am obsessing over it. Iāve gotten him so many more toys and we are making some progress with them. He is getting better with target training. He loves chilli pepper!!
But I worry I am failing him, that he is screaming from boredom or stress or frustration, or just being alone. He canāt be elsewhere in the house as we have a cat, the door canāt stay open because of the same reason.
Has anyone else felt this way? What have they done about it?
like I said I really donāt think heād get on with another bird, but every time I hear him yelling I feel anxiety and guilt.
There have been improvements - he rarely yells in the evening any more; when he does itās often just because he wants the radio turned off. I think he likes the white noise of the air purifier so that is on a lot now!! His attention can be redirected when I know Iām taking a call. In general heās quite content in the afternoon and doesnāt yell (unless birds outside set him off!). He loves his foraging box (to the point now that heās ignoring his pelletsā¦ if thereās less/no seeds in the box, he might eat some of the pellets, but then it doesnāt keep him occupied. Catch-22). Got him some apple bark sticks, and dried corn cobs that heās had before; he can strip the sticks, and mainly plucks the corn pieces off but sometimes eats them. Again itās just keeping that beak busy!
And yet when I hear him yelling, itās just setting off anxiety in me. He wants company, but I canāt give that to him 24/7. Or Iām projecting reasons for the calling and itās not any of those but I still FEEL that way!