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Fly Free My Very Special Cheeky Boy

Discussion in 'In Memory' started by JessCheekyMia, Jul 27, 2018.

  1. RoyJess

    RoyJess Regular Member

    Jess wanted me to let you all know that Cheeky Ashes came home on Thursday. Jess will post on here when she is ready
     
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  2. dianaT

    dianaT Moderator Staff Member Moderator

    Thank you Roy x
     
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  3. JessCheekyMia

    JessCheekyMia Regular Member

    Thank you all for all your support, I love you all xxx

    I thought it was about time I showed you where I placed my beloved Cheeky's ashes.

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    He is inside this beautiful personalised memory bear. So we can carry on with our cuddles. I am not ready to let go, so he will remain with me. He always loved cuddle time so I felt this was the right decision.
    I did also put a very small amount of his ashes in this necklace. So he can be with me when I am out. I chose this style necklace as he is my diamond in my heart. 20180905_102048_crop_401x403.jpg
     
  4. JessCheekyMia

    JessCheekyMia Regular Member

    I forgot to say thank you to Jude @TomsMum for speaking to me on the phone just after he passed. I couldn't ring my Mum as she was on holiday and I didn't want to ruin their holiday. So I rang Jude and she was so lovely to me so thank you xx
     
  5. plumsmum

    plumsmum Regular Member

    We all love you too hun and know only too well what it is like to lose those special loved ones. Pretty sure Cheeky will not want you to be unhappy, so remember and talk about him often. I am only just able to talk about Plum but it gets easier. Remember they are not ours to keep but only loaned us to love and teach us, I feel my boy did his job well with me, hopefully you do too? xx:emoji_heart:
     
  6. TomsMum

    TomsMum Administrator Staff Member Admin

    Bless you lovely xxxx
     
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  7. Michael Reynolds

    Michael Reynolds Regular Member

    That's a lovely tribute and the pendant with his ashes well keep him as close as he can be to your heart
     
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  8. bikergirl Carol

    bikergirl Carol Regular Member

    sending you hugs Jess. you have wonderful things to hold onto to bring you close to your little one.x
     
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  9. JessCheekyMia

    JessCheekyMia Regular Member

    Thank you, you are so lovely. Plum certainly did his job well with you, your a perfect Mummy. I can't talk about Cheeky to people out and about which is odd as I would never shut up about him when he was with us, I just end up crying. I have only told my parents. Haven't got round to telling my siblings. However, me and Roy took our friends daughter to a magic event that went on for 2 days. The night before we got a message that they were rehoming their dog as he was attacking her and she was worried if he would go for Hannah (their daughter). Now Hannah loves Wicket (their dog) so I knew she would be very upset. So we picked her up before the magic event and she was upset bless her, she hadn't eaten all day. When we got into the theatre Roy bought her a coke and some crisps. I told her she doesn't have to eat them but they are there if she feels like them in the show. After an hour she looked up and opened them up and ate them. We just smiled at each other. Then afterwards she wanted a KFC, I was pleased because she ate something.
    Well the next day she wanted to go through her photos of Wicket, so I got my self together and told her about Cheeky and we went through photos of him too. I don't know how I did it but I did. We made a promise to each other that we can talk and cry if we wanted and remember our loved ones together. This made her so happy and her Mum was worried because she bottles things up so at least she managed to talk about him and also laugh about all the funny thing's he did. I haven't spoken to anyone else about him though, but I am sure I will one day.
     
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  10. bikergirl Carol

    bikergirl Carol Regular Member

    Sometimes saying the words out loud hurts to much. I know cos thats how i feel. but letting it out can help when you are ready. You helped Hannah and she helped you that is precious. You did a very special thing for the little girl. be proud of your self.
     
  11. JessCheekyMia

    JessCheekyMia Regular Member

    Thank you, I didn't really do much but her Mum said Thank you the other week for taking her out. It meant her Mum could take Wicket to his new home whilst Hannah was with us having fun. She said her goodbyes to him before we took her out.
     
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  12. Heather2131

    Heather2131 Regular Member

    "To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die" - Thomas Campbell

    This brings me comfort when I think of animals and people ive lost
    And you did a very good therapeutic thing for her daughter there
     
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  13. dianaT

    dianaT Moderator Staff Member Moderator

    That was a very kind and thoughtful thing you did Jess (and Roy) xx
     
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  14. JessCheekyMia

    JessCheekyMia Regular Member

    Awwww thank you both. I don't feel I done much. I cried for Hannah on the way home after she went back to her parents. You could see her sadness in her eyes bless her. I know Wicket didn't pass away but it is still a loss for her. I had to explain to her that her parents made the decision to rehome him because they love her and want to protect her. I bought her a magic trick and she loved it. She had a great time. She even had some hot doughnuts for afters on the second day. I saw her a week after and she was so happy. That made my day.
     
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  15. Rain

    Rain Regular Member

    Jess - with everything you go through, you still always think of others. You have such a kind heart.
    Just wanted you to know that I think you are bloody lovely. x
     
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  16. JessCheekyMia

    JessCheekyMia Regular Member

    I think your bloody lovely too x
     
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  17. Michael Reynolds

    Michael Reynolds Regular Member

    My Beryl changed my life and is the reason I do all I can to help others and there birds, He loved meeting people and I will never forget him. I still think of the good times we had and I still cry when I talk about him or see photos, The support I was shown had helped me face up to the loss but to repay him and the love he gave I will continue the work we started together. Cheeky was so special and he helped you so much and now you are able to use his life to help others I am so proud off you.
     
  18. PalBuddy

    PalBuddy Regular Member

    This breaks my heart
    I’m so very sorry
    I lost my Beautiful Blue Front Amazon 6 years ago and I still cry over him


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  19. JessCheekyMia

    JessCheekyMia Regular Member

    Thank you Michael, that means alot. Beryl was a very bird too. He was lucky to have had you.
     
  20. JessCheekyMia

    JessCheekyMia Regular Member

    Thank you. I am so sorry you lost your baby boy too. I can imagine you are still crying over him as he was your baby. I think that I will be the same, I will cry for the rest of my life over my Cheeky xx