Ok so let me start this by saying, shes from a pet store and I was told she was 8 months old. I wasn't planning to buy her ( i think its a she) but she was being picked on by the other bird in there and after some eye contact from her and some interest she came home with me....(I was planning on buying a bird just a hand raised from a breeder as it is my first bird) I have had her about a month and well there isn't any progress besides her settling in shes the same with me day one as she is now. She is scared of hands which is fair, but she doesn't show interest in any other food (nuts,brocli,kayle,banana, apple) or millet as long as I'm holding it. I know what people have been saying with approaching slowly problem is she doesn't puff feathers down when she goes to the other side of her large cage. Im not sure if its due to having lots of perches or what but im at a loss right now she will happily eat near me and she will happily perch on the door and play and explore as long as I don't move and the hands are not near. Any advice? because right now I'm not sure if maybe she is just not a "human" bird in which case she will have to be with another bird or whether I am doing something wrong? but most positive reinforcement and training stuff isn't helping as she has such a big cage I can't slowly approach her pushing boundaries slowly. So should I change what I'm doing? or admit I'm not experienced enough and let her go to a home with more birds and a more experienced owner?